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  • October 17, 2025

The Cost of the Corporate Ladder in Life

Lifecycle We get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. I myself have recently been caught in this cycle of feeling overrun—or maybe just run down. My life has become work, and work has become my life. This is not a complaint, but honestly, I just…
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  • September 24, 2025

Life Moves Fast: Learning to Slow Down and Redefine Success

Life comes at you fast—sometimes too fast. One minute you’re learning how to ride a bike, and the next you’re building a career. Somewhere along the way, I realized I wasn’t enjoying life the way I should. Instead, I felt the constant pressure to perform, perform, perform. And the hardest…
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  • September 19, 2025

Liberation.

Liberation. I think that’s the feeling. I finally released the past after realizing how toxic it truly was. For years, I thought I wasn’t good enough, only to discover that he wasn’t good enough for me. The Fall Away From Liberation Originally, the story felt so sweet. We met in…
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  • September 17, 2025

Being Confronted With My Programming

My Programming I grew up being taught that the goal in life was simple: go to school, get an education, and climb the corporate ladder. For years, I thought that was the only path to success. But now, I find myself questioning if I really want those things—or if I…
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  • September 12, 2025

The Secret to Happiness: Why Hard Work Isn’t Enough

What if everything we’ve been told about hard work and financial freedom is wrong? What if the idea that working harder is the path to success is actually a lie? Many of us grow up in a system that glorifies effort, productivity, and “going above and beyond.” We’re told that…
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  • September 12, 2025

Angry Black Woman.

Burnout, Bias, and the Reality of Corporate America Today, I was called angry. Not because I was yelling, not because I was lashing out—but because I was burned out and sad. I’ve been carrying the workload of three people since my coworker left and my original boss was fired. For months,…
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  • September 12, 2025

Are We Done With Hustle Culture? Rethinking it.

Lately, I’ve been asking myself if it’s time to retire the 9–5 grind. Hustle culture was once sold to us as the only path forward — work hard, stay late, sacrifice, and eventually it will all pay off. But more and more, I’m starting to wonder: at what cost? When…
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  • September 12, 2025

Why Turning 30 Can Be the Best Time to Start Over

Walking into my 30s, I feel like I’m ready to hit the reset button. I want a new career. I want a new environment. I want a better, more meaningful way of life. Is this what it means to turn 30—when the things you once thought you wanted no longer…
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  • September 12, 2025

Awareness, Privilege, and the State of Our Nation

Awareness. It’s something I’ve carried my whole life as a Black woman in America — an instinct to always be conscious of my surroundings, the choices I make, and the forces that shape my future. With everything happening politically, especially in Washington, D.C., I can’t afford to be uninformed. History…
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  • September 12, 2025

Escaping the Rat Race: My Search for True Freedom

The Life We’re Told to Live From the very beginning, we’re handed a script: marry a certain kind of person, get a stable job, and work for 40–50 years. That’s supposed to be the formula for happiness. But somewhere along the way, I started questioning it. I found myself in…
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